Call VW we had the same Problem on our 2012 TDI Wagen they replaced the whole fuel system on it and it ended up in the shop 9 times in 6 month's .We Called VW and they Put us into a New 2014 VW TDI wagen at no cost to us what so ever . So it Pay's to Call VW and this was done with 1 Phone Call .
Well, I did call. Since at this point the pump has not failed, just seeing the metal in the filter.. they won't do anything, except charge me $120 at the dealer to tell me they won't do anything! I called the customer care number, they did not take my VIN nor name, while I vented.. the lady basically hung up on me. They know they have a real issue here, which I suspect is why they helped you as they did. I assumed they'd know metal was the sign that the pump was soon to fail, the tech I talked to said when he was in CA he was doing 5-6 HPFP replacements a week! VW want to blame the fuel quality, but that may contribute, the real problem is the poorly designed CP4.x pumps can't deal with US ULSD fuel, and they are prone to failure, but worse, because of the design, they infect the entire fuel system as they did in yours, and it is really hard to clean it up, they have to replace everything from tank to injector to even try, and that assumes it did not stick open an injector with the metal particles and burn a piston head by dumping massive fuel in to the cylinder..
I did register a complaint with the dealer, and the VW website, no reply as of yet, and I'll be calling them again... at a minimum I want them to cover the $120 for the "diagnostic fee" I did that for them providing the old filter, metal particle covered rag, and pictures of what I found when changing the filter, heck I even did the VCDS scan and provided the printout!! I took it in because it was obvious the pump was starting to go, an needed replacement before failure, but VW seem to prefer a catastrophic failure on the road somewhere before they will replace the pump, dumb.. just dumb.. I could not buy or recommend another new VW.. and your 2014 is going to be subject to same issues sooner or later, because from what I could find, the basic design of the CP4.1 is not changed, and I do believe the design is just not good, and a roller cam is not good to lubricated by ULSD, and worse to recirculate the lubricating fuel from the cam to the HP side (when it can be avoided easily) and to return fuel form a known high failure pump to contaminate the entire system.. those are at a minimum fixes they should implement, which are pretty easy, but the fact they don't tells me quite a bit of what the executives really value, and it is not the customer.
Just curious, did you file a complaint with the NHTSA over your pump failure? I contend they see only a fraction of the actual failures, and even at that they have 181 for this issue in this car, in comparison the NHTSA had ZERO for the same search for the CP3 system in the Cummins/Dodge. My other cars had minimal fuel systems issues on the NHTSA site.. 181 is a huge number for a specific part failure..