I've been running a DMI for a long time. Works great for one person hookups, and taking the yank out of whatever I'm pulling. Its even been hooked to a pullig sled a bunch and yanked on straps and chains off road. Mine is the old style flat hitch, you can get newer receiver type with the chrome drop bumper. That is the way I would go, a little more adjustability in height, and can remove it to get it out of the way. My DMI is inthe same space a kelderman air ride is, so I can't slide my hitch in when not in use.
Michael