I'm a 3nd gen born and raised Californian. The problem here is massive numbers of transplants,apparently of the liberal persuasion who insist upon instituting their extreme left convictions on a formerly conservative state.
My dad told me that if it had not been for the Japanese invading Pearl Harbor and our subsequent involvement in the war,San Diego would still be our little secret.
It's a great homebase to travel from. Geographically,we've got it all.
I recently spent a few months in San Diego and met some great like-minded folks, mostly of military or retired military background. But they were widely dispersed among the bumper crop of fruits and nuts. I was too busy to get out and see the all of the sights a hayseed like me would enjoy in a big city, but I got glimpses of a few.
Mostly, though, I was pretty miserable because of the timing and what I was missing back home: My sons' state championship football season, Hawkeye football, bow season (deer & turkey), pheasant season, duck season, and all the other invigorating Fall and Indian Summer colors, smells, sounds, and weather that make the other 9 or 10 months of living in Iowa so worthwhile.
Also, running the simplest errand to Homie Depot could kill most of a day and you still wouldn't find what you went for. How do people stand being in traffic 90% of the day? How do they get anything at all accomplished?
The most fun I had in San Diego was actually the weekend I spent with my retired Navy friend and his wife at their home south of Tijuana. There wasn't much difference culturally, imo, between either side of that border except then I had good reason to feel like I was a guest in a foreign country.
Even when checking out a little night life in SD, I never even came close to passing for a native kalifornian, though, like regcab said, it did seem like everyone who was "native" was actually from somewhere else "years ago". Lots of friendly people, a few jerks, and massive social issues. Seeing advertisements for "medical marijuana" was rather stunning, topped only by the number of people who had "medical cards" allowing them to buy it. Lots of sick folks there, it seemed. Huge unemployment; the highest in the nation, I was somewhat proudly told.
And fences around EVERY single dwelling and inch of real estate?!! Seriously?!! Are those little barriers of scrap steel and wood intended to keep people out or in. . ? The only thing they really seem to accomplish according to crime reports every day there is to give the illusion to folks that they somehow live in "their own little barricaded world". It gives a very claustiphobic and uninviting impression to visitors like myself.
The best thing, though, was all the
great stuff that the california gubbermint makes everyone throw away: trucks, cars, and more trucks. Stuff so pristine and preserved or so new that we only dream of finding such things in long-forgotten barns around here. Can't pass smog? "Junk it!" the state orders, and the people
actually do it! No proof of insurance on file with the state? "Junk it!" the state orders again, unless of course you are one of the millions there who do not belong there and are exempt from most laws. Even more amazing is how blatantly bold the state and city gubbermint is in forcing extortion money at every turn from the citizens. There is a fee and tax and fine on everything!! And I mean high $$$, not just the 100 or 200 pesos it takes to make government officials leave you alone just a few miles south of there.
Like a save-the-spotted owl crusader, I began a personal mission of outrage and rescued a couple of really nice old chevy 4x4's and they are now happily living the long and carefree country-boy-and-truck life back here that they were meant to.

So many others, though, were left to be put-down by the State... I can only feed and house so many... :{
Still, my distrust of our own "new-breed" of state legislators (imports from kalifornia?)who seem to think this either
is kalifornia, or that kalifornia has actually done anything right, has prompted me to hang onto any and all "take-off" items from my trucks, including that mysteriously useless fat portion of the old exhaust pipe from my cummins dodge. It just added unnecessary weight and restricted exhaust flow to a fuel-wasting degree. I 86'd it since I believe in conserving precious resources like diesel fuel and money. The State of Kalifornia only believes in regulating and controlling every minute aspect of everyone's life that lives there legally (again, anyone who isn't there legally, or who flood by the tens of thousands back and forth across the border to kalifornia jobs every day, is not subject to any laws I could discern).