TXHAWG:
I've been doing it for years: Just hold the ratchet in the center and snug only. 14 ft lbs is not much.
After you drain, get clean, lint free rag and clean water in fuel sensor in fuel filter canister. Close the canister drain. Place new filter in and be sure to lube new rubber ring gasket w/ diesel fuel. Place plastic fuel filter canister cover on loosely, place amd leave ratchet and socket on cover and bump (real quick) starter and leave in run position. This will fill fuel canister. As soon as you see fuel starting to come out sides, tighten top holding ratchet in the center. Fight the urge put excessive force. Wipe off the canister and start the engine. Check for leaks.
Hope this helps,
Wiredawg