NIsaacs
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I looked at stock rims, distinctly different slope.
Per Napa, the '17 Ram 3500 srw uses this nut, as oem. M14-1.5x22mm in 60 degree taper.
https://www.napaonline.com/en/p/NOE82002221?impressionRank=1
Per one review on Summit, the 81a Vision uses a McGard 64806 nut, a 60 degree taper. It was for a 2nd gen so the tread was 9/16-18x7/8".
https://www.summitracing.com/parts/mcg-64806
Pretty sure Vision is steering you wrong. It has been my experience, most customer service/technical support staff know nothing but what the computer is showing. No clue what a lug nut v/s a wheel stud is.....
I assume the tire store that mounted the wheels used the oem nuts?