Regarding stout bumpers setting off air bags in otherwise "small" collisions, I don't buy it. I understand the theory you're trying to prove, and I heard the same things from people when they first put the bags in Jeeps. However, in addition to the g-force sensors, they're tied into the speed sensor as well. If you're not going over the threshold speed (not sure what it is on a Ram), it won't go off no matter how suddenly you stop. I know for a fact this is true with my '98 Jeep with dual airbags, because I've crashed, smashed, and beat the crap out of it on many rocks, even ran into a solid wall of ice at about 10mph, and the bags never went off. And let me tell you that was some jolt!!
I'll take the extra assurance the beefy bumper gives me regardless of any miniscule amount of risk that is added in only a small set of non-ideal circumstances. The only one that should be worried about my beefy bumper is whoever made the mistake of cutting me off... "wow that kia has quite a cumple zone and my bumper not a scratch" :-laf