It is a bit confusing trying to describe all these things. Let me take one piece at a time:
I have mostly been following the TST KDP instructions, though I did not buy their kit. I bought the Victor Reinz kit, aka Mahle 48383, from the "local" Cummins parts dealer, mostly because he had it in stock that day. The TST instructions are available in a pdf off their page, currently
http://www.tstproducts.com/dowelpinrepairkitfor94-98.aspx In particular, they have you install the seal from the inside of the timing cover -- you remove the semi-transparent plastic installation sleeve from the seal, put the seal installing tool that comes with the kit into the bore of the cover from the front (outside), flip the cover over, and install the seal from the back (inside). Then you re-insert the plastic installation sleeve, from the inside -- perhaps, as you say, BigPapa, till it stops.
Ok, but some folks have still had some difficulties with this method, and after reading a few articles on this forum, I thought I'd follow the procedure described by Jo Mc starting in reply 41 of this thread:
https://www.turbodieselregister.com/threads/252740-crank-seal-install/page3
He basically recommends driving the plastic installation sleeve a little further (outward). I either drove it too far, or it was just not the best idea given that I had put a wear sleeve on the crank. I had the cover all gooped up with Permatex Ultra Gray and trying to hold it right and push it onto the crank, and because of the wear sleeve, the narrower part of the installation sleeve wouldn't press onto the crank, only the wider part. So that left a bit of crank to go ... the seal rode off the inner end of the installation sleeve and up the crank into position -- I can only hope that didn't make the inside seal lip curl or flatten.
Regarding the dust shield, some kits have them. TST's instructions mention them, and they include this picture, which shows the dust shield pressed up against the seal. Apparently, some kits don't have them, and some folks have never seen / used them, so I'm guessing mine, a little mangled as it is, will be just fine.
Finally, you are correct, I did not use any kind of sealant between the crank and wear sleeve. I guess I thought the fit is so tight it wouldn't need any sealant, but I do see that some folks suggest using Loctite Blue. So ... perhaps if I have a leak when I start this up, I WON'T know why ... seal or sleeve? At this point, I figure I'll put everything together and check for leaks. If I have to redo it, it won't be that aggravating ... I hope. There is definitely an art and a learning curve to all these things.