It is usually a good idea to use the right diodes to protect circuits and to make it easier to troubleshoot after the fact.
If you use the same power source (circuit) as the shifter uses, and your 'manual' switch simply goes around the "Ram's" switch then you may get away without a diode. This would be sort of like putting two switches on a house light, one for each door. (not exactly but close). However doing this does not in itself offer you any extra current capacity to drive extra backup lights.
One way to attack this is use the B+ power lead that feed the trailer plug as the power source for your extra backup lights. (via an additional user supplied appropriate sized in-line fuse as the B+ feed will pump a ton of juice before blowing a fuse whilst shorting out)
Power the command side of a relay with a tap to your reverse light circuit at the rear of the truck. Attach the B+ tap (above) to one side of the relay and your aux light feed to the other side. When the reverse lights go on, the relay is commanded 'on' and the juice will flow from the b+ tap to your new lights.
Once the above is done, if you make a cab switch to manually jump around the transmission switch, you have the ability to turn all the reverse lights on at your whim. (I added a very bright LED to warm me not to leave the switch on while driving down the road)
There are countless ways to do this and most are just fine, especially if you err on the side of protecting your investment with a little extra planning and protection. (fuses, diodes, etc)
Enjoy (but don't burn up your truck!)