I know I've posted previously, but comments made since then have spurred more thought about the OP question. From my 2nd Gen, two 3rd Gens, one 5.9 and one 6.7, and my current 4th Gen, I've always found for my purposes, close to 400HP and 800Lb ft of TQ provide the towing grunt and daily drivability. There are way more SO Cummins/68RFEs being built than HO/Aisin trucks. It's made my head hurt trying to compare drivability and reliability without any real trend either way.
It might just boil down to butt in the seat feel and comparing costs. I'm a techy sort of guy, so I recommend writing down all of the quantitative and qualitative elements you can think of. 1st to 2nd, 2nd to 1st shifting, smoothness of shifting, EB on/off, TH on/off and combo. Accelaration from a stop and getting on expressway. EVIC set to show system temps and compare. Assign a weighted score for each element, but total cant exceed 100.
I know I could look back when your truck was wreckedto see what transmission you had, but if it was a 68RFE, you may have a leg up on the horse comparing. I dont recall anyone mentioning advancements or version improvements in the 68RFE, but I do know there were substantial improvements from the AS68RC and the AS69RC programming and mechanicals.
So, not sure even I can throw any more spaghetti on the wall for this subject.
Gonna be REAL curious what you end up getting
Nothing like the joy and fun of getting a new truck.
Cheers, Ron