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Originally posted by 446





The amount of good people that have left or been booted from this sight is amazing. Some that come to mind:

Ron ( well you know)

HVAC (set the standard of performance for us)

Carl (single-handedly stopped the price gouging by your advertisers)

Bill K ( single-handedly changed the quality of our auto's)



plenty more I can’t think of at the moment.



I pay for this site for information and entertainment. I find the "wars" more informative sometimes than the average "how do I change the air in my tire thread" and, yes I also watch Jerry when I get a chance. Don’t get me wrong. Everyone started with the same questions, but you need to keep the old-timers around to keep this place alive.



What a bunch of wheenies!






Ok, how about I respond from my PERSONAL POV... This in no way should be construed as representing the TDR management. For this moment, I'm removing my moderator hat and i'm JUST A READER.



I joined TDR for one purpose - to answer questions from a unique perspective. In December 99, there were NOT a list of knowledgeable people about how pumps or fuel systems in general worked on this forum. I did not own a CTD at the time, and did not figure to for years. I found out I could make friends here, and stayed for that over time.



What I saw then, is what R Patton and Co has tried to offer, a meeting point, a nexus of information and communication. Let me ask you, how many transmission specialists post here? None. Why? Because certain individuals and a vendor that was removed saw fit to insultingly and directly attack every other one who came to the board. Rather than put up with it, they all left. I consider this a terrible loss to our reputation, and a loss to the members here. But, it was directly caused by a mistake, I believe, on the part of our management - we did not immediately confront the issue head on an squelch it. This is a lesson that for me, at least, was hard learned. I have personally talked to some those who no longer will frequent this board and share thier knowledge... And they are NOT coming back.



None of this is about disagreement, or differring approaches to issues, this is about defaming, confrontation, and in some situations, just plain verbal abuse.



The question is, how do we prevent this from happening in the future? By allowing the agitators, the irritants free reign? If you think so, feel free to say so. But from my POV, it hasn't worked. In fact, I'd say the reverse was true. It has been, in my own opinion, our laxity, not censorship, that has driven knowledgeable people away from this forum. The participation of many of the people doing experimentation or development of products continues to fall, and my informal observation is that it will continue until we provide an environment where their time and efforts spent here do not appear to them to be a waste of time and energy and a big irritation.



Now, putting my moderator hat back on:



I'll accept my share of the blame for:



1. Not being sufficiently perceptive to grasp some of what I have posted above until it's well too late.



2. Not spending enough time and watching closely enough to prevent certain events of recent history from spiraling out of control in the first place.



3. Not being sufficiently communicative with both participants and other moderators so as to keep a better watch over what's going on, and making sure we're more "uniform" in our application of principles and rules.



However, the best we as humans can do is live and learn. Now, what will YOU do to help the situation?
 
Boy this tread has gotten way out of control, Time to stick a fork in it, its done ! If you can't play by the rules, take your ball home and play with it all by yourself ! IF I want to see or read a ******* match, I can just turn on the TV or pick up a paper. I have been very happy with the way things at TDR are done and will continue to be a member. I have found TDR to be a great place for information and a place to meet new friends, but there are a few who get thier rocks off by causing conflicts. Do you let them continue until someone really gets ****** off :{ and hurts the other, :-{} or do you break it up the best way that you can ? Sorry thats my 2 cents worth and I WILL STICK TO IT !

Kyle
 
Originally posted by Rob Thomas

FWIW,



Some of you may have forgot that this is not "OUR" site, you don't have a, " RIGHT TO BE HERE", you are a "MEMBER" of an orginization that you "PAY" to be included in.



I have a right to NOT PAY. This may not matter to the TDR, and thats their right to not care.



One thing that really turned me off me was seeing WWCD2 banned from this site.



Caused a "slight" gap in my membership, even caused me to miss a mag. :rolleyes:



There have been several others banned from voicing their opinion.



Now its Don M. ??



I say this VERY seriously, One way to really tick off customers is to start censoring them.
 
Shortshift,



You are correct, you do not havta pay, nobody twisted yer arm to do so in the first place. The TDR has many new members daily, and that will only continue, because of the benefits this site has to offer. So your threats on leaving the site, to me anyhow, I say, be gone with ya. The small percent of "Bad Apples" that are here I'm sure will not be missed by many, if any.



"Voicing opinions", get real dude, it's beyond that and you know it. If it's too boring here, maybee you, Cummins Corvette and the other handful of crybabies, can make your own "whining" site, you'll havta come up with another name though, "Romper Room" has been taken. Good greif, you clowns really need to grow-up.



Later, Rob



EDIT: spelling
 
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I am noticing a trend that the people who have no problem with our best members getting booted have only been registered for the last year or so. I think the reason you don't understand the dissatisfaction over what the site has turned into is because you weren't around back when this site was actually good. I joined here(under a different name), back when there were only 300 or so members. We were all discovering what the new 24v engine was capable of. HVAC had just purchased a blue box and thought it was scary how much power it made. It was exciting to see the performace bar being raised to new heights every week. I used to check the board faithfully every day as I think most members did at that time. Now it is nothing more than a bland vanilla imitation of the sanitized for your protection Ford site. If you feel that you are not intelligent enough to be exposed to all sides of the story, then by all means continue reading only that which the tdr allows you to see. I for one will be voting with my wallet as you have suggested. I will not be renewing my subscription as a direct result of this incedent. I encourage the members who are doing the same to make the tdr aware of your decision and the reason for doing so.
 
Originally posted by Rob Thomas

Shortshift,



You are correct, you do not havta pay, nobody twisted yer arm to do so in the first place. The TDR has many new members daily, and that will only continue, because of the benefits this site has to offer. So your threats on leaving the site, to me anyhow, I say be gone with ya. The small pecent of "Bad Apples" that are here I'm sure will not be missed by many, if any.



"Voicing opinions", get real dude, it's beyond that and you know it. If it's too boring here, maybee you, Cummins Corvette and the other handful of crybabies, can make your own "whining" site, you'll havta come up with another name though, "Romper Room" has been taken. Good greif, you clowns really need to grow-up.



Later, Rob





Right with ya brotherOo. Oo. Oo. ;)... . Rick
 
Originally posted by Arcticat

I am noticing a trend that the people who have no problem with our best members getting booted have only been registered for the last year or so. I think the reason you don't understand the dissatisfaction over what the site has turned into is because you weren't around back when this site was actually good. I joined here(under a different name), back when there were only 300 or so members. We were all discovering what the new 24v engine was capable of. HVAC had just purchased a blue box and thought it was scary how much power it made. It was exciting to see the performace bar being raised to new heights every week. I used to check the board faithfully every day as I think most members did at that time. Now it is nothing more than a bland vanilla imitation of the sanitized for your protection Ford site. If you feel that you are not intelligent enough to be exposed to all sides of the story, then by all means continue reading only that which the tdr allows you to see. I for one will be voting with my wallet as you have suggested. I will not be renewing my subscription as a direct result of this incedent. I encourage the members who are doing the same to make the tdr aware of your decision and the reason for doing so.





I am one of those who haven’t been around on this site for a very long time, but I agree completely and I am on the same side of the line that is being drawn here.



"Now it is nothing more than a bland vanilla imitation of the sanitized for your protection Ford site... . " LOL!!! How true!!!!!



Maybe we need to divide the tdr in half to satisfy everyone. :( Bland vanilla sanitized half, and a colorful interesting half where

:-{} and expressing opinions are allowed. :D





Flame suit on so GO ATTER' BOYS!!!



The above statements are only my opinion and not necessarily the same as the tdr or its staff... lol
 
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Cummins Corvette,



Your a lost cause... ... ... not even worth arguing with, someone needs to take away your computer,... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ..... and SMASH IT.





Later, hopefully ALOT later, Rob
 
No, you're a lost cause

Originally posted by Rob Thomas

Cummins Corvette,



Your a lost cause... ... ... not even worth arguing with, someone needs to take away your computer,... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ..... and SMASH IT.





Later, hopefully ALOT later, Rob



It is like I told you last night: we disagree.
 
Shortshift,



You are correct, you do not havta pay, nobody twisted yer arm to do so in the first place. The TDR has many new members daily, and that will only continue, because of the benefits this site has to offer. So your threats on leaving the site, to me anyhow, I say, be gone with ya. The small percent of "Bad Apples" that are here I'm sure will not be missed by many, if any.



"Voicing opinions", get real dude, it's beyond that and you know it. If it's too boring here, maybee you, Cummins Corvette and the other handful of crybabies, can make your own "whining" site, you'll havta come up with another name though, "Romper Room" has been taken. Good greif, you clowns really need to grow-up.



Later, Rob



[GET OFF OF THE SITE AND GET A LIFE!!!!!]





QUOTE]Originally posted by rjones







Right with ya brotherOo. Oo. Oo. ;)... . Rick
[/QUOTE]



Well Gee Wiz, Brothers. . and Sisters...



Please dont flatter yourselves too much. .



I didnt even know you were before you took my comments so personally as to start shooting in my, CC's, & other's directions like mad... men?



My comment was simple.



I was a member when the blue box was getting members all worked up on "fun factor" potential of our work trucks. Was a reader for a long time before that. Watched vendors become vendors from the blue box days.



One very interesting thing Ive seen, is people can take shots, and argue about politics, truck brands, religion, ethics, how to drive, global warming, and even call others names (like "crybabies") and have almost no repercussion about it (except from replies that may be somewhat harsh & direct). And its pretty much been fair game, as long as when you dish it out, you can take it back.



But badtalk VENDORS that pay to advertize or sell from this site, or organize GROUP PURCHASES, and youre basically REMOVED from the boards. Your gone. It doesnt matter if we gained knowledge from their contributions or not - their gone for interfering with advertisement.



Again, yes, this is fair game if the owners of the site choose it to be this way. Its a PRIVATE owned site. The owner is king, as he/she should be. Like it or lump it. I tend to not like that aspect of it. I do appreciate the info gained from it, but wont contribute to censorship.



You clowns are free to take your worthless personal shots. They mean nothing, because you know nothing. Maybe you will grow up, and learn what your real enemy is, but you obviously dont now.
 
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Originally posted by Arcticat

I am noticing a trend that the people who have no problem with our best members getting booted have only been registered for the last year or so.
So you noticed it also! Guess some folks need a place to learn how to change the air in their tires. If they don't want controversy perhaps they should just read their owners manual. Seems like a lot of the questions folks ask here nowadays are answered there if the person just takes the time to read it.
 
This part of the job sure is fun :rolleyes: . Believe me when I say that the LAST thing that anyone at the TDR or the moderators want to do is have to take actions against a member or boot someone from the site. In the close to 3 year history of the site we can come up with 6 people that have been booted from it out of over 12,000 users. It is NOT something we take lightly. One thing we know for sure is that it is a 100% guarantee that if we have to boot someone from the site that we will get a ton of grief from it - so it's a last straw measure.



We've been trying to let this thread play out because if we close the thread then we will be accused of closing it because of bad press. As you can see from this post we do not try to limit the criticism nor do have we stopped anyone from mentioning competing sites so you have options if you wish to visit them. I'm going to try one last time to explain the position of the TDR on this and I sincerely hope that this thread will either go away or some people will understand why actions are taken when they are.



This was and never has been about someone attacking an advertiser. As was said by someone earlier in this post if that were the case then you wouldn't see all the criticism of Dodge, Cummins, Banks, Dr. Performance, BD, etc - those would be deleted, they aren't. All of those are or have in the past been full page color advertisers in the magazine and each one represents a far greater amount of advertising revenue to the TDR than do all of the Amsoil ads put together.



What you have to keep in mind is that 90% of the discussions with users about violating the guidelines of the forums take place off line in private discussions with the individual member and you never hear about them. Vendors and members are allowed great leeway in violating the guidelines while we try to deal with it off line. Only after there is little to no cooperation from a member for a long time is it then taken to the strike 1, 2, 3 step.



Doing a search on Don M's posts I come up with 189 posts from him mentioning Amsoil since August 22 of 2001. I haven't read through all of them but I can virtually guarantee that none of them are applauding Amsoil. So if we were trying to stop that criticism why wouldn't we have taken action 180 posts ago? As I said above, Don had been warned repeatedly to not instigate oil wars, and that does not mean that he couldn't post factual information about Amsoil or any other product for that matter - that's always welcome. What it did mean is that he could not bait another user as he did in this case to strike up the wars again. I was very clear in my email to him when he was suspended for 10 days what would happen. Here's a quote from my February 11th letter to him (Gene received the exact same warning btw from his 10 day suspension):



We will reinstate your access on February 20th and hope that you will let this issue drop at that point, if not we will then revoke your posting priveleges and refund your subscription money.



I don't know how I could have been any clearer on what the consequences would be. I too am sorry to not have his knowledge here on the site any more as I enjoyed reading many of his posts as well. Given that however, no matter how knowledgable or helpful someone is if they cannot abide by the simple guidelines that are on the site that 12,194 other members can we have to take action.



You have to keep in mind that we are trying to keep 12,000 + members happy with the product offered here. I have talked with many of the people that are listed here as no longer posting on the site (other than those booted) and discussed in length why they no longer post. Interestingly enough not a single one of them have said that it was because of too much moderation. As a matter of fact in most cases I've been told that it was in fact because we didn't moderate as much as they felt we should have. Some simply don't have the time to weed through the volume of posts here given that many of them have been gone over time and time again in the past. We recently added the First Time Cummins Diesel Owner forum to help with that. Others were sick of being attacked by other users or vendors. Others had even different reasons - but not a one said they weren't posting because of over moderation. There will always be a small percentage of "problem" users and the more users you have on a site the more of them there will be. With 12,000 users+ it's inevitable that we will have more than sites with 1,500 users. We ARE doing our best to provide the best product possible for the MAJORITY of those 12,000+ users.



It's been stated above that the only actions that are taken against members are when it's against a vendor or advertiser on the TDR. One of the people that have been banned from the site was because of conflicts with one specific user and he told us that he couldn't stop and to remove him - which was done. Two other cases were people posting either vulgar or dangerous information on the site (one of them was turned into the FBI just in case because he posted links to terrorist sites where there were instructions on how to build a nuclear bomb and conspiracy theories after 9/11). On the case of the group purchases the owners tried hard to work with the individual involved and even created an entire category in the classified ads for group purchases because of complaints of the number of group purchases being posted in the forum. Yet that person would not stop posting repeatedly in the forums about the group purchases even when an area had been specifically created for him to post them.



Criticism is certainly welcome, we consider all input for the members. When it's appropriate we make changes to the site, guidelines, etc. What you have to realize though is that much of that input/criticism takes place off line and you don't see it. There is a very small minority of members that want a "war room" or no moderation. There is a great majority of members that tell us that they'd leave for sure if that was the case. If you are one of the ones that want no moderation, want a war room, etc then you are going to be sorely disappointed because your view is in the extreme minority and it will not be implemented. You have the option to request a refund and move onto greener pastures.



For those of you that are supporting our decisions and the way we run the site I thank you for your support. However, I'd ask that if you wish to post to this further please keep it simple with a "I agree with how the TDR is handling things" or something like that and do not attack the members that are expressing their dissatisfaction. What we are trying to accomplish here is to minimize the amount of conflict on the site while providing the best information resource for our trucks. Thanks for your time.



If this thread continues down the path it's on it will be closed and not because we're trying to squash criticism of the TDR.



-Steve St. Laurent

Lead Moderator
 
Steve,



Youve been doing a great job trying to balance fairness. Its appreciated.



I just believe that we were able to handle Don M. 's comments fine, and we learned from him either being right, or CORRECTED.



Either way, we learned from the discussion.



For everything point he brought up, there was plenty of opportunity for rebuttal, or clarification. The truth was available.



In my opinion, it was our loss.



Thank you for your efforts. Not many can do the job you do.



(FWIW, I still run Amsoil even though Dons point about it not being API was valid and SHOULD be considered. )
 
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Originally posted by TxDieselKid





THANK YOU FOR YELLING!!!lol



It is a never ending battle of "well I think this... " Time to lock it guys, it's only gong to get worse, and it has run it's course anyways. My hat tips to the moderators for doing the non-paying job that so many of us will never relize can be so hard. Thanks for letting this one run though.



Andrew





Agreed This thread is history for me I'm going on to more important info, Like how and the H**L to get more black smoke:D
 
I took the time to e-mail R. Patton. Here is what I said.



I must stand up for Don in this case. His removal for the use of the term "over-priced junk" is petty. It is possibly vindictive. But most of all it is dumb business. If you keep booting intelligent, strong speaking guys like Don off the site soon you will only have a little bunch of hand-holding wuss's who can't write stongly or speak their minds.

We are not a group of little girls here. We are Diesel Drivin' MEN for God's sake.




Robin e-mailed me back and I don't believe TDR wants us to post their e-mails to us so I won't post her reply, but she implied she was reviewing the situation. I sent her another e-mail and came up with a suggestion for a policy change.



Robin, I STRONGLY SUGGEST you change your policy toward booting members off the board. I URGE you to change your policies to be more accommodating to the TDR membership. My suggestion is that you change the "3 strikes" rule. To post as Don did is not a crime, after all. It is all too easy to hit the send button. Too many TDR members were upset with his dismissal. This action angered too many members. Perhaps after the "3rd strike", the member could get 30 or 45 day suspensions. A 30 or 45 day suspension is pretty severe without generating all the BADWILL toward TDR. After your booting of Don M. , I got more than one e-mail saying IF ONLY there were another board out there with comparable members, they would switch. Truthfully, switching sounded good to me then too.



The handling of this problem was heavy-handed, and unpleasantly severe. It almost seemed like (the TDR enforcers) had it in for Don and wanted him gone from the board.
 
LET IT GO! LET'S MOVE ON! NOTHING ANYONE OF US CAN DO WILL BRING HIM BACK!



Let's just all try to have a good time while we are here.



Andrew
 
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