EDankievitch,
Do you have the 68RFE? Not bashing it, and I haven't driven a 2103 before, but I believe the Aisin may function differently than a 68RFE. My 2017 Ram 5500 Aisin and EB perform way better than my 09 Ram 4500. Was the Ford SD a 2013 or a new one as a basis for comparison?
I read the OP question and have this comment: If I want the EB to engage, I tap brakes. You know as much as I drive this and my former truck, I don't recall when the EB engages when I take my foot off the accelerator and coast. I'm driving it tomorrow, so will pay attention and get back to you. Just, C&Cs operate and perform a little differently, so may not mirror what you see. One thing that's different is my EB switch is on when I startup. To date, I haven't heard of the P/Us EB switch automatically on at startup and requires to be depressed every trip.
This is a good thread!
Thanks, Ron