Why the change after the first 1000 miles?
That part is simple, since we very rarely do just a converter and valve body upgrade, we are also changing the pump bushing, drum bushing, 3rd gear clutch pack, 2 gear band. All these fiction materials have what is known as a peach fuzz on them and after a few miles on the transmission they tend to go in the bottom of the pan. The bushings also have a slight wear as they seat. Normally on a 95 or earlier dodge ram it wouldn't matter much, but on the 96 and later dodge rams it's a different story as they have an eletronic governor solenoid which can easily be contaminated and lead to shifting problems. The electronic components on a 96 and later dodge ram are worth approx. $320 from your local dodge dealer and about 2 hours labour.
ATF +4 gives you the smoothest shifts and the least likely to cause TC shudder.
ATF +3 is like the middle of the road it's got better fiction co-efficiency than ATF +4, the only reason that we use ATF+3 is because it the most available in bulk form, and is less expensive.
Dexron oil is the most aggressive, it can handle alot more horsepower without your clutches slipping than ATF+3 or +4. Therefore it also causes firmer shifts, when we take Stefan's truck on the road we use dexron oil, simply because on the amount of abuse this truck see's, with customer/potential customers driving it see's some hard miles. Lawrences truck held 700+hp with dexron type oil.
If you want smooth shifts use ATF+4
If you want an aggressive shift use dexron oil (keep in mind dexron can cause TC shudder)