Hitch intall
Brad,
Most hitch installers will use a minimum distance from the front of the bed, in addition to checking where the pin is in relation to the centerline of the axle. As I'm sure you've read on here before, DO NOT install it behind the axle. My hitch ended up 5. 5" in front of the center of the axle, and I cant remember what the disatance to the front of the bed is (its calculated such that the side of your trailer won't hit the back of the cab). You should contact your manufacturer and they can fax/email you installation instructions. One other item to take into consideration with the 03's is positioning the bed rails such that your bolts and the frame brackets don't interfere with the hat sections under the bed (the stiffeners running across the bed).
Other things to look at:
If you can, back your truck up under the trailer. Check the clearance between you bumper and the trailer. When mine got installed 5. 5" forward, I sacrificed the ability to easily go between there, and I cant easily get into my basement compartments in the trailer.
The farther forward, the more the trailer wheels will "cut" the corner. Right over the axle gives you the optimum tracking. Also, the farther forward you go, the more weight the front axle will carry. But when we are talking only 6", its probably negligible.