The SBC disk is a little heavier than the stocker, so the synchros have to work a harder to match the gear speeds. When you shift into gear at a stop after idling in neutral, the synchros have to stop the rotating clutch disk before they allow the gears to mesh. The heavier disk has more rotating mass, so it takes a bit longer to slow down.
When you're shifting into first or reverse. clutch it, count to three, then try to shift. That'll give the synchros a bit of a break.
If the clutch isn't dragging, then changing the hydraulics won't fix anything. As a test: while stopped with the engine idling, put the truck in first to stop the clutch disk, then back into neutral without releasing the clutch pedal. Count to ten and put the truck back in first. If it goes in easier, that tells you that the disk is still relatively stopped and that the clutch is releasing properly. If the disk has spun back up from a dragging clutch, gear selection will be difficult again.
There's probably nothing wrong with your setup. That's just the nature of the beast.