I always cringe when I see a suggestion to add fuel to help light off a larger turbo when it comes to towing. If you're actually using the extra fuel, it'll make a difference. Like accelerating from a dead stop, aggressive passing, or really hammering to get up a hill. But for normal cruising (level or rolling hills), you'll see no difference, since you're still using the same amount of fuel as you did before (which is probably less than stock in most cases). Like I've found, and AClayton posted above, higher temps at cruise are the nature of the beast when it comes to larger turbos. By going to the bigger compressor wheel, you've essentially shifted your powerband up a few hundred RPM. If you add to the top, you're gonna take from the bottom. Adding fuel won't help in this case.
Since Jeff already has an EZ, he's already getting the benefits of timing advance, so switching to a Smarty wouldn't gain him much from that, either.
An intercooler will do the most good when the temperature differential is the greatest, which is at high boost numbers. Since there isn't much temp rise in the intake during cruise, you probably won't see much difference. I'd save the $1,300.
And I'd hate to say it, but I don't think he's going to see much difference from the stage 1 intake in those conditions either. I didn't when I went from a drop-in K&N to the stage 1. If I were to do it again I'd probably go by the test results in the previous TDR magazine and just drop in a good quality filter in the stock airbox and continue to take advantage of the cold air. The stage 1 will flow better, but it is sucking hot underhood air. With a trailer on and the exhaust manifold, turbine, and radiator cookin', the temperature difference between inside and outside air is going to be huge. The article proved that the drop-in filter had the advantage on the test truck, which was over 400hp. Not a huge difference, but it had a few more hp, plus the benefits of having an enclosed filter.
Long story short: the larger-than-stock compressor in the turbo is causing the higher cruise temps, and there really isn't anything you can add on that will help a significant amount with egt reduction in cruise. Like AClayton says, keep the rpms up to drive the bigger compressor and the temps will come down.
Or if you have a spare $3k, hanging a second turbo under your hybrid would solve the problem nicely...