Yeah, I'm a strict SOB, I guess!
Last night I found my laser pointer (given to me by my Mom - I teach and have to give presentation at work), had went through the washer in my 10 year old son's jean's pocket. When I asked my wife what she had done about it, she said "I took it away from him!" I about exploded. I've told him at least 2 gazillion times about messing with other people's property and asking permission. My wife grew up in a home where they "talked" about stuff, and very little real punishment. I grew up getting my butt beat for everything I did wrong. And I think I turned out pretty well - engineering degree, never killed anyone, get along very well with my parents, etc.
The number one reason for failed marriages is $, but most of our fights are over raising our son. Don't get me wrong, we're no where near that, but it's still frustrating. He makes good grades and stays out of trouble, but, just because of that, it doesn't mean he shouldn't get punished when he does do something wrong.
In short, I agree with all of you. I'm tired of this BS, and I haven't had to deal with it to the extent that you guys have/do. It makes you wonder what this world is going to be like in another 10-20 years.