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I know it comes a NO surprise that a couple of members and I have fantastic conversations about who is the GREATEST of all and the BIGGEST of all. I think that the time has come to put this website aside, it really doesn't have anything of interest to me any longer with my 3rd gen being the best of the best. On TDR it seems to be what's new to be the most important and I WON'T buy a 4th Gen and waste my money, the HAVC problem on the 3rd gens HAS BEEN BEATEN TO DEATH in the magazine along with the famed 3 issues of HOW TO MAKE AN ELECTRICAL SWITCH WORK AN ACCESSORY. I don't even receive the magazine any longer its sent to my Brothers house and I look at it via the website even he (a guy that can't work a wrench) said that its not what it use to be, more of a club to talk about the problems with the Country. So with that said and taking a look at and talking to a Man that I admire Greatly Mr. Greg Harman who I sent this Email to (yes we talk quite a bit and call ever so often) I will take leave when my subscription runs out and WON'T LET THE WIFE RENEW IT THIS TIME. Until then, like I said I sent this Email to Greg and with his permission he said I should post this because there are a few that enjoy this sort of BARBARIC BEHAVIOUR. You mite have to read around and figure out some of the names in it Greg knows who they are and how they relate to our family.



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FROM Greg Harman TO You

Re: Hope you had a GREAT Day!

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FromGreg Harman

ToGAIL WRIGHT





Brother BIG!
Sounds like a FINE WEEKEND!

No problem with the TDR Post!

I'll bet Gary and more than a few others will be glad to hear of your accomplishments!

OUTSTANDING Job on that walk behind plow!

Yer Pard!

Greg




On Sun, Jun 30, 2013 at 5:56 PM, GAIL WRIGHT <wrght_gl@yahoo.com> wrote:




Been a great day!!!! Yesterday was a SUPRISE BIRTHDAY PARTY for me Penny knows that im not into the B day thing and this way she got me!!! Im part of a club kind of thing that likes the old farm equipment so when I got the things from my Gramps barn the crew were all interested in seeing and using it. I set this weekend up to get some things working and guys wanted to help out, we used our sickle mowers to harvest some pasture grass that really wasn't tall enough but it was fun to work the mowers and let the animals get there reward by eating fresh cut grass. Then we used the manure spreader to get rid of the mountain of manure that I had accumulated over the winter. The spreader worked GREAT as is from Gramps barn. It was a real tear jerker for me when FIL/MIL drove up with my Aunt and Uncle from Nebraska my Aunt Fern got out of the car and waved at me while I was on the spreader I stopped and walked over to the fence and she had a big tear in her eye. I asked what was wrong? she said you looked just like Dad's Brother Uncle Gail (I was named after him) He was a giant of a man 6ft 11inchs tall he weighed close to 400lbs and it wasn't fat, when he died they had to make a special casket for him and it took 8 men to carry him to the grave site. When I was born we have a picture of me sitting on the heal of his hand and his fingers were holding my head I was no small guy my self but he and I were pretty much best buddies. Gramps and he were the first of the Wrights to head west from Ohio and when Gramps bought 11 sections of land his Brother Gail went to be the Blacksmith in the town. My Dad learned most of what he knew about metal from working with him as a young man.



We were working the animals to get a couple of stumps out of the field the first 1 was no match or Nathan's team what a great looking set of animals 17 hands high Percheron Mules. When Nate brought them from the Barn the group were in amazement of the size of these rascals. I had to build a special evener for them the one that I use for my Boys wasn't WIDE enough and not strong enough to withstand what these BIG BOYS could dish out. I hooked them to a stump that the Boss, Caroline, Penny and I had cut the tree down the previous day. Nate handed me the keys to the team, I said there yours to drive he looked kind of confused so it was a GREAT time for he and I to share this moment. He took control, I told him to sound firm of voice that's how they know its WORK TIME. He did snapped their butt with the reins and away they went stump and all, PRETTY IMPRESSIVE!!!! WASNT EVEN CLOSE TO WHAT WE HAD JUST WITTNESED. The next one was a little more of a task they had a go at it and it moved but not a lot. So Penny and Vickey said don't hurt them, we have an older guy that KNOWS MULES he started laughing and said just give BIG a minute to get them mules on the same page it wont take long, we took another go at it and same thing. I went and talked to the mules they looked confused as to what was going on??? The old timer yelled GET-EM RIGHT BIG!!! This was all going on, on the front pasture the cars and trucks had stopped to see the site. With all the farm equipment and then Nates mules it was a pretty big group of folks watching from the hwy. Nate gave me a hand at the wheel and backed off, a snap of the leads and A LOUD YELL!!! they pulled that stump like nobody's business (got lucky I guess, or he had loosened it up enough) Pulled the stumps off to the side and continued playing farmer BIG for the rest of the day.



I have a walk behind plow that I have always wished that I could use but with my leg I always seem to fall. We have an old Blackman that is the YODA of walk behind plows, he makes joke of the Master always getting the sit-down plow and he and his Dad got the one that you had to actually work to use. He makes it look so easy he and his mule are a program of HOW IT SHOULD BE DONE. He don't walk in the plowed row he uses his right hand and walks to the side of the row. I was trying to figure it out and at lunch he asked about me working with the walk behind plow. I told him of my problem he said that we can adjust the plow and get you up and working. We hooked up Jacob to the rig I have its a single animal plow and harness, He had me try and I again busted my Butt, he asked if we had a torch Jason went and got mine. He heated a mount and bent it a bit and said give that a try, same thing eating dirt with manure was getting a little much. Made an adjustment to the way the harness mount and said give that a try! BINGO!!!!! I was off and plowing like everybody else. I worked that plow till my hand had blisters and they popped and started bleeding. Penny said don't you think that its time to give it a break look at your hand or at least get some gloves. Like Gramps said Gloves cost money skin grows FREE, I thought that plow YODA would never quit laughing he said his Dad said the same thing and that he could sand fence posts without sandpaper cause his hands were so callused up. He is quite a man I couldn't thank him enough for his help, I can remember My Gramps plowing like I can now!!!



Had dinner with everyone and a fire with a sing around, one of the best B Day's I have had. Boss asked if I was getting back at him from when we worked together? I had to laugh I did the work and He sat and wrote down the numbers of the product that I loaded most of the time. He and Caroline have had a great time working in the sun and getting dirty, even thou they were the BIG BOSS'S at work they are just like us normal folks well ALMOST.



Pard I would like to post this on TDR, there are some guys on site that kind of like this sort of stuff and are pretty decent human beings if its ok with you. A few of them have PM me about how you are doing? Its getting hard to be NORMAL on that site, if you cant spell good or you don't kiss their butt and tell them they are great your a moron, ITS NOT CHANGED MUCH.



Pard take care and watch out for them fires.

Got to go put some Neosporin on my blistered they haven't felt this good in a long while



Penny, BIG and Crew
 
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Great story as usual, BIG. I have come to look forward to them as well as your pictures. Your one of the few who is so willing to paint a picture of your life for all to see, and I certainly appreciate it!
 
Great Story Big and Trust ME YOU Will BE very Much Missed around here I Look foward to all your stories and Post's your 1 Hell of a great man even thou we have Never Met . you have brought many of good Laugh's and great info too this site . Stay In Touch and God Bless .

Val
 
Gail,

I've always looked forward to your posts. I appreciate your view and outlook on life. The above post is a great example (well, except for the leaving part).
Dad was from a South Dakota farming family. Reading your post reminded me of him and Grandpa. I miss them both.

Take care and hope you decide to return.

Regards,
Greg
 
BIG, I sure enjoyed that story. You are a gifted story teller Pard. I will miss you and all your stories and pictures.



grizz
 
Yup. I'm saddened but not surprised.
BIG, reading your work is likely as close as ill ever get to the big sky country. Thank you.

Everyone's gotta do what's right for themselves. That's why I avoid the politics page nowadays. I have no ill will towards anyone- even HB- but we all need our own air.
I really agree with your new truck philosophy though.
 
I hope you stick around a while longer.



I will for a bit longer JUST TO IRRATATE THE LIKES OF FOG HEAD until the subscription runs out.



The wife and I have decided to help some of the Youth in the area that have had a hard time in their short lives, We are looking into running a kind of self help for (I HATE TO USE THIS WORD ITS SO DEMEANING TO ME) KIDS, that their parents for WHAT EVER REASON are missing from their life. We have been fortunate to have made a comfortable life for ourselves and our Children. We believe that the time to GET THRU to young folks is when they are still young enough that they are not set in their ways. It is our belief that once past the age of 18 your pretty much the A** or Person that your going to be. There are exceptions to this (don't laugh to hard) and I know this first hand that CHANGE can happen and for the better, But not without lots and lots of help. On the other side of the coin you have some WITH parents that think cause they are, IN THEIR EYES and MIND some how MORE deserving than the others and that life has gave them and their parents such a hard time that their needs are so much more worthy, We don't see it that way you have your parents and your own life to make it what they want.



To some I may be an vulgar, obscene, BIGNASTY tyrant, but I have always had a soft spot in my hart for young people that need a hand. From the young man that lived next door to us in Calif that went into the Marines and has become a Father/Husband that says its because of Penny's and My help, to the kids in the Hospitals that I went to sing Barney the Purple Dinosaur songs to, so that they could forget what they were in the hospital for. Don't get me wrong it was for me also I usually was there to have something fixed, patched up, replaced, or cut off just seeing the smile and not the look of pain was more than enough payment for Penny and I. Jim my New BIL and I sang songs for a young girl that sent us on this path, she lost her leg being foolish in a car and admitted this. It touched us so that we spent MANY cold days and nights at truck stops singing for a new leg like mine. It was something that neither of us can get out of our minds the look on her face when we gave her the money for the leg at our FIL/MIL's Christmas party,we came up with this idea along with our wives to see if we can help.



This is a LARGE reason of leaving the CONTINUAL CRAP that some inflict when a simple thought is thrown out that may be different than theirs and VERBAL ATTROCITIES INCURE. I don't need or want this on my WEAK MIND when trying to help someone else. Clean healthy living, food, exercise, and the beauty of the mountains is what we feel WORKS, It did for me along with plenty of help from my Wife and her family and of course our backyard.



Penny/BIG

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Big, I was one of those nasty young men, also was a nasty adult until i met Jesus Christ, and he changed my life, I now try to live every day for him, and try to share him with others , so they too, might know the joy of having him in their life(Forever), May you also share with the young boys and girls The hope of Jesus Christ, not only for a better future,but for salvation, Eternity is forever,and there is NO do overs, Have a wonderful day, Monte
 
Big, I haven't had the privilege of meeting, however as you may recall I'm stealing money in the Bakken Play in Watford City ND. Hope to slip over your way some time and may give a call. I'm currently reading Life in the Saddle by Frank Collinson, one of the real men of the real West. He was in on the big hunt, what he called the buffalo kill of the 1870's. Reading Collinson I sometimes think of your exploits. I couldn't tie a diamond hitch if my life depended on it, however I've hunted poor boy style and taken several elk down in Colorado (one with a single shot short gun, yeah bragging a little :). Would love to have packing skills and pack into big back country. We feed a few hoss's but those low land Southern cayuse couldn't cut it above 5k feet I'm guessing, I'd spend more time letting them breath than it'd take to trot to the top. I do vicariously enjoy "the life" through your stories and pictures.

Happy trails Pard!
 
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Big, that's a bummer. Your posts are what I look for, a window to where I want to be. Carry on, as you do. You are definitely on the right path.
 
We'll miss your stories here Bignasty. Having been in and around the mountains all of my life (well, except for a little over a year I took off), I know exactly what you talk about. I do feel sorry for the folks that never get to see that. But at least they have been able to experience it vicariously thru your photos.
 
Big, I was one of those nasty young men, also was a nasty adult until i met Jesus Christ, and he changed my life, I now try to live every day for him, and try to share him with others , so they too, might know the joy of having him in their life(Forever), May you also share with the young boys and girls The hope of Jesus Christ, not only for a better future,but for salvation, Eternity is forever,and there is NO do overs, Have a wonderful day, Monte



Monte

In our tribe of folks that we call family and friends we have a retired (I call him Preacher Man) that stood on some of the beaches giving comfort to the Marines that WERENT going to make it, he had only a Bible, to as he puts it Cover his A**. He has been a great man to me for the past going on 4 years that we have been in MT. We spend time together going to food banks around MT to collect can goods for the Needy Project that he and his wife have started in our town. Its usually a VERY LONG day or sometimes two. We have talked about helping the young folks when this happens and without question he's there, he's always trying to get me to come over to his side of thinking and I have to some degree. I still walk into the Church with hat in hand he laughs when I take a step in the door and look around, he asked ONE TIME!!! WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR BIG??? The lightening bolt or to burst into flame. Im working on ME one day at a time that's the BEST I can do for now. But without question he is a Spiritual Leader to us all.



Big, I haven't had the privilege of meeting, however as you may recall I'm stealing money in the Bakken Play in Watford City ND. Hope to slip over your way some time and may give a call. I'm currently reading Life in the Saddle by Frank Collinson, one of the real men of the real West. He was in on the big hunt, what he called the buffalo kill of the 1870's. Reading Collinson I sometimes think of your exploits. I couldn't tie a diamond hitch if my life depended on it, however I've hunted poor boy style and taken several elk down in Colorado (one with a single shot short gun, yeah bragging a little :). Would love to have packing skills and pack into big back country. We feed a few hoss's but those low land Southern cayuse couldn't cut it above 5k feet I'm guessing, I'd spend more time letting them breath than it'd take to trot to the top. I do vicariously enjoy "the life" through your stories and pictures.



Happy trails Pard!



I read all the time TV is a bunch of BUNK, I read the journals and chronicles of explores Lewis and Clark, Jim Bridger, Hugh Glass, Liver-Eating Johnson, John Colter and a host of others that most don't even know existed. My Daughter got me this thru the National Geo that she and I both are life time subscribers of, those were some tuff Pards. I will get your suggestion and give it a read.



I do know what and how to tie a diamond and DOUBLE diamond hitch ropes are my thing when on the trail. I was fortunate enough to have learned from a man that in my eye the greatest packer of all, he worked in Bishop Ca I went there and said I want to learn to pack and will work for free. They laughed the first 5 times I went there after working all week hauling gas and drove there to get a chance to learn. I kept at it and finally an old fart that smelled worse than a fart asked why do you want this so bad? I told him that I want a chance to SMELL AS BAD and BE AS UGLY as YOU!!! We were instant friends (that would be the nice side of our relationship) He was NOT an easy man to learn from and I can take anything or name thrown at me cause its nothing to what HE CALLED ME. I named my Mules ( that he helped me pick out) after him Jacob Earl Daisy MAN I CAN STILL SMELL HIM :-laf and we spread his ashes a year ago here in MT. He came up 2 times to hunt with us and he kept saying YOU HAVE MADE IT TO THE BIG TIME!!!! but I still don't trust that Indian wife of yours BIG she don't like me, well take a bath might help a bit.



Hunting and the type of hunt is ALL IN THE MIND, Im fortunate that I found a girl that liked me and I didn't know the side benefit of her family being in the outfitting business and she's pretty good looking to boot, I could have overlooked that fact if I knew that an UGLY girls family were outfitters but it was a plus that I didn't have to.
 
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I will be around a bit longer, I have to go to Yellowstone for 3 weeks WHAT A BUMMER :-laf and then help out around home until the hunting season comes. I didn't think that I was going to hunt this year and might not still. A fellow Packer died a couple of weeks ago and his Son asked if I could help him honor his contracts for the hunting season. Im maxed out with work around the family but the other packers and some of the family members said that they will help out so I can help him. Kind of a nice place we live in here, cant find that to many places I don't care where ya go. I might get to tickle the trigger but mostly packing will be my job, that's ok Daisy and I need time alone she is my mistress according to the wife, the rest of the gang are up to a campout and sleepover any time.
 
We are on something like 35 other sites that the wife and I belong to. I can hope you understand that Im going to decline to answer this directly we don't want some of the REASONS that im leaving this one to follow and bother me there which would REALLY make things at home a living nightmare. I really liked this site NOT for the reason of the site THE DODGE, I can if pushed to, do a lot more to work on my Dodge. I just have lost interest in working on things that are computer controlled. Things like my old tractor and old equipment im into. But just cant seem to bring myself to learn more about these and the likes of the wife's Audi what a frigging mess that thing would be to have to work on thank God they are very good IF LEFT ALONE. (that may start a war) :-laf with some. The main reason I STILL like this site is that you guys bring more to the table than just a look at the Dodge, I ask more questions about non truck things, just because it seems that there are other outside interests and views from the members. I was BELITTLED by one of the STOOGES that said I seem to surround myself with FREINDS that KNOW more. WELL I WOULD LIKE TO THINK THAT IS TRUE!!!!! Look around this site is filled with other wonderful info that has NOTHING TO DO WITH DODGE pickups.



We scribe to mostly travel and lifestyle sites, seems that more and more people are trying to attain some sort of sustainable lifestyle. The wife writes for a few girl-ie sties that are directed toward her cooking and more natural look at things, we and others are going toward a more (here we go again I can feel it coming :rolleyes:) organic style of living, not in the same sense that most would think but a less PROCESSED look at what we shove down our necks. At my surprise Birthday Party the other day one of the wives asked about the birthday cake? it had happy birthday GAIL on the BIG 60 of life. She asked WHO'S GAIL??? Penny said BIG is what you call him :-laf She said HE'S 60 years old!!!!!! Penny said yep he's a 1953 model year why? She was floored that I was 60 and then to find out that Penny is 55 years old she wanted to know what we eat,drink and use to get to this way of living. She thought that we were LOTS YOUNGER than we are.



Im on sites that deal with my friends in the barn like the Brayer http://www.lovelongears.com/brayer and http://draftanimalpower.com/ to name a couple that know that im an A** and most would love to be called that on these sites :-laf Some hunting sites and long range Hunting that are more of a challenge to be on at times than TDR, must be the time of the year and something to do with the rut and hormones. Horseback mountain riding/camping and some Outfitters and Packers sites.



Then others that are for the OFF GRID group, they helped me get our Son's solar/wind grid tied system up and running home building sense we have been sited as GREEN BUILDERS we look at it as just don't want to be COLD in the winter. Which brings up another post im going to post on this site about woodstoves for heating.



I hope you can understand my reasoning on this but im not hard to find.



CAUSE I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE :-laf:-laf:-laf:-laf



Sorry I just couldn't resist that one :-laf
 
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