Mom is Passing!

[GHarman]

Sunday, 27 May at 0730, after getting up, dressed and in the midst of her breakfast, had a stroke. My Wife also noticed that her under garments were dry. which is unusual. The conclusion according to the visiting Nurse is that Moms kidneys had shut down.

We contacted immediate family and many local friends came by to say goodby. She was unable to respond in the conventional manner, but was aware of their presence. We had phone calls from back East. Pennsylvania and West Virginia where those that could, would say their goodbys over the phone that was placed next to Her ear.

She is resting quietly as I type this and hopefully She can transition into the LORDS presence without to much discomfort. We are on a 24 hour watch.

We have been privileged to attend to her needs, at home, with us, over the last 5 months. Even though it has been extremely difficult at times. We are Blessed beyond measure!

Mom is presently 99 Years, 7 Months and 3 weeks old. We had all hoped she could make it past 100 years. However some sneaky health issues blind sided Her.

If any TDR Friends feel led to Pray for Mom and our Family. It would greatly be appreciated! Moms name is Florence.

As Always,

GregH

 

[jgillott]

Prayers sent for your family.

 

[jhenderson]

Bless you and your family. My mother in law died at home with us at 94 years of age. It was not easy, but I don't regret one minute of it.

 

[The patriot]

I pray for your comfort and hers passing.

 

[Bill Lins]

Y'all are in our thoughts & prayers.

 

[Stranger]

So terribly sorry to hear.
My Mom had a stroke when I was overseas. She passed before I could get there.
You seem very prepared for this.
I'm just blabbering, I'll quit.

God Bless your Mom and your family.

 

[GHarman]

Thanks Everyone!

Yes, we have prepared as best as we could. However, there are always loose ends. Not to mention the Pain at seeing someone you Love, pass on.

She will be greatly missed.

GregH

 

[p-Bar]

Greg,
Lost my mom over a year ago went about the same way body started shutting down gave us time to all get together and pray over her she went very peacefully. Will be praying for you and your family.

 

[WesJohnston]

Greg,

Just got back and found this post, I'm sorry to hear but I know you realize how long you have been blessed to have your Mom around. I lost my Dad three years ago this month. I still miss him terribly.

Your Mom, You and your family are in our prayers. Be strong in your faith.

Wes

 

[GHarman]

Her passing is Complete

Mom slipped into Eternity this Afternoon.

She will be sorely missed by all who knew Her.

Her most consistent reply to the question of "How are You", was; "WONDERFUL"!

Thank You all for your Prayers and Thoughts!

As Always!

GregH

 

[p-Bar]

Absent in the body present with the LORD

 

[JJPage]

My prayers are with you and your family GH.



I lost my Dad one year ago on the 21st of May, which is also my Mom's birthday. Even though we were prepared, we were not, hardest day of my life.



Jess

 

[AMink]

I am sorry for your loss but moved by your strength. I hope I have the same outlook when my parents' time comes. Prayers your way.

 

[GHarman]

Thank You! Everyone!

For Your Prayers and Kind Thoughts.

Our Family is Truly Diminished!

However, she is in the presence of our LORD!

p-bar, Right on! Brother!

As Always,

GregH

 

[HOBrian]

So sorry to hear. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

 

[guldam]

Sorry for your loss. Your Mom sounded like a wonderful soul, and you sound like the perfect son. You both were blessed.

GulDam

 

[dresslered]

So sorry to hear about your loss Greg. Sounds like she will always be with you. Prayers are with you.



-Dressler family

 

[GHarman]

Not perfect, Just Forgiven!

We were both, certainly Blessed!



Yes, She will be with us!

Thanks for your kind replies.



The first celebration service was held today.

There were many Friends in attendance.

The second celebration and interment will be next week, sometime.

GregH

 

[Tractorat]

I lost my mom when I was 13. Lost my dad when I was in my mid 40's. It was far harder on me when I lost my dad than when I lost my mom



What helped me a lot when my dad died was that I decided to not look at it from my personal perspective, but from that of his parents (my grandparents) at the time of his birth. "What wonders will our child see in his lifetime ? What will be his joys and his heartaches ? Where will he go ? Who will he meet ? What will he do ? What will be his "life story" ?".



His death was still painful. But the above did bring a smile to my face. Especially when I envisioned his spirit, sitting in the church a the funeral, listening to his old friend playing his banjo.

 

[Yo Hoot]

Greg,

You know she was grateful of you to watch over her during her last days. We have my Mom living with us. She turned 81 today. Her kidneys failed six years ago and has been on dialysis since. They say average lifespan for someone her age on dialysis is 5 years or less. She already has that beat but she is really slowing down now. Her feet are driving her crazy with pain . . poor circulation. Often says she's done and doesn't want to do it anymore but she's a mad German so that doesn't mean anything. She loves life. We know she won't be around much longer so we are trying to keep her as happy and comfortable as possible. She has some wounds on her toes. They want her to get hyperbaric oxygen treatments. . every day, 3 hours for 6 weeks. She said no way. At this stage it's like getting chemo for cancer just before you die... . makes your last days worse.

Thank you for posting your experience. It helps us deal with it.