The socket isnt a standard socket- it is a rounded corner job that is available at most NAPA, SnapOn, drivline shops, et al. Basically, it looks like they take a piece of pipe, and flare out the corners to the size and shape needed, then add a flat stock across the center, where they punch out a hole for the ratchet, breaker bar etc.
Also, upon reinstall, torque the nut to (I believe) 120ft-lbs, then back off 90deg. It is better to have wheel bearings a hair loose than a hair tight.
Daniel