The only time I've seen transmission temperatures above 200 degF when towing are in long periods of stop-and-go traffic, on a long uphill grade with switchback turns that kept the transmission in 1st and 2nd gears, and using the exhaust brake at low speeds coming down a long grade, manually shifting into 1st & 2nd - I saw 235 degF briefly during the latter but never got a high transmission temperature light!! Apparently the exhaust brake function of the VGT will continue to work even if the torque converter isn't locked up in these conditions, which I find surprising. (Yes, it was in tow/haul mode, but being manually shifted with the +/- switch.)
Rusty