Jimmy, at work we have a jig, the guys at SOP saw it. It bolts to the valve cover bolt, (with the cover off) and pushes the valve down. You put this on, roll the engine up until it hits the valve, mark the balancer at a known point. (install a pointer or something) Roll it down a little, pull it off. Roll the engine past TDC, put the jig back on, roll the engine backwards til it hits the valve. Mark the balancer. Pull the jig, measure between the marks, put a new mark exactly 1/2 way. This is TDC.
You can do this by tightening the valve down, but it's not as accurate.