Wife Getting ...AAAHHHEEEMMM....Enhancements .

[DieselMinded]

First off Please try to keep this within the site guide lines



Wife is getting Breast Enlargements



Small "B" to a Large "C" I guess



I told her she has just watched too many Reality TV shows on make overs or what ever but she is all bumd out all the time so Im For it I guess about 6g's there goes my trany.



She has the place picked out and shes going to a consoltation soon so this is happening.



So why tell you guys????



Does any one have expirence with this type of thing ??



is it dangerous for her ??



Lets try to be serious ... . this is real



you guys always help



no matter what the cause



If your going to get detailed please PM me



Im making an honest attemp to make this thread CLEAN This is a matter of depression and poor self confidence I think this will change her/our lives.



This is one thread That I wont be posting pics on



DM



Well Now I have Offically started a thread on everything



Again Lets Walk the line and not cross it

 

[scootergmc]

This thread is goofy... just like you said, but living here in the state where plastic, saline and botox abound... . Here's my 2 cents...



I think she may have gone too big. Regular C would be my maximum recommendation. There's nothing worse than when a girl gets implants and you know she got them, just by looking. Go for the, "yes, God blessed me, they could be real, you'll never know" look. But I don't know your wife's dimensions other than the current situation.



If it's really for self-esteem/depression issues, I don't think new boobs will help. Short term solutions to long term problems never seem to address the issue. But good luck. I hope it works out for you two.

 

[MMeier]

Reality shows, what a crock of crap. A lot of people need to get a REAL life and stop watching **** like Springer, that chubby black broad and the like. ( Yoo Hoo , you see this), yeah you know who ! Peolpe watch this crap and automatically think that is the way everything has to be, so it's "me too, me too" , I need this, I need that, BS !! If you want my opinion $6 g would be better spent on bombs for the truck, or maybe some counseling to get someone straightened out !

 

[DieselMinded]

THE FIRST REPLY



Thats a good point



And I dont think were paying for the pound so Im sure the Doc will recommed whats best She is 105 lbs I cant remember how talk shes pretty short tho. Im 6' shes chest high if that helps



My friends around here just say hay cheer up this is going to be a great thing way better than a trany :> but Im still not O. K. with it... At this point tho I really dont have a say.



"yes, God blessed me, they could be real, you'll never know"



Thats funny but true thats what's best



Ill admit Im having a tough time being seious on this matter but I need some info from the only people I trust.



Shes been wanting these for a long time HOWEVER



""Short term solutions to long term problems never seem to address the issue""



I see it more as a long term solution (NONE RETURNABLE) for a long term problem For her not me



DM



The SECOND REPLY



I agree with you also We have been together for 10 years IM 25 she is 27 Ive supported her/us sence I was 16 we have ONE 2 yr old son and My wife DOES NOT WORK she is a full time MOMMY and with the CRAPola on TV its hard I guess for her to seperate truth from fiction SOAP OPRAS SHOULD BE BANNED IMO as well as OPRRA, MURAY , ALL REALITITY TV execpt Ms. PAris



The thing is man she has wanted this for as long as weve been together. Im not saying the TV hasnt helped her along the way BUT YOU WOULD AGREE SOCITY IS MAJORLY CORRUPT



I tell her to be happy with how God made her but it dont work I really do think this will make her happy



DM

 

[EBottema]

Yes

Reality TV is ruining the world. MTV started in the 80's and now all the kids in school no matter what their race act like little hip hop freaks. Really sad.



Wow, shes gonna look great im sure, you will be pleased :-D but I would advise against it. Every 10 years i heard it needs to be redone and if they leak it could be harmful. It costs a lot and the breasts are painful for a while. I think of it this way...

Is it medically necessary? NO

Is it worth the money? Not Really.

Could it be harmful. Possibly... .



Not worth it. Make her feel special and play with her a little more and maybe she will forget about the implants all together. Maybe she just in her own confusing female mind wants more attention and she thinks those big boobs will make you play with her more?? It is an idea, women are weird so it could be so!



Erik

 

[NVR FNSH]

A co-worker's wife had breast enlargements a while back. He said it took some getting used to hearing other guys (strangers at the county fair) comment about his wife's rack.



Brian

 

[fox]

Here is a little rain on her parade.



My sister-in-law had them done in the 70's. Not real big just a little " Help ".

And I did notice and asked my wife, and was no she didn't.



Well for 6-7 years now she hasn't felt good and was a cause of stress for everyone around her. Doctors said she was healthy, but she convinced them to keep looking.





Found it, left side ruptured.

it was spead all thru the chest cavity.

Last month she had them removed at a cost well over $20,000. Then she had a blood clot and nearly died.

She is fine now.

She went all thru that for what????

appearance!



Make sure the modern ones are un-brakeable.

Please.

 

[RT66DOC]

DM,

Any surgeon who does this procedure should be well aware of the psychological motivation and implications involved in each individual case. Standard practice is to screen patients in these areas prior to going ahead with the procedure.



Don't forget to ask:

1. How many have you done?

2. How many of these procedures have been done at this facility?

3. What are the possible complications?

4. What is the national rate of complications and how does that surgeon's rate compare?

5. Will the anesthesia be given and monitored by a BOARD CERTIFIED ANESTHESIOLOGIST? A doctor/physician/MD or DO - not a nurse anesthetist. They're pretty good but I'll be damned if I'd let anyone but a BC Anesthesiologist put my wife, kids or our dogs (OSU Vet Hospital) to sleep for any procedure.

6. You live in Perry County. I'd get an appointment for a consultation at the Cleveland Clinic for a second opinion. You're so close, it'd be a shame not to. Those guys are to medicine/surgery as Joe Donnelly is to our trucks, if ya catch my drift.



Gotta go to the office now but I'll have more pontificating for you when I get back this afternoon. Let me know if you have any questions at all. Good luck and God Bless.

 

[Headshot zod]

I think after they get installed you will have to massage them for a time (seriously). Scar tissue forms around them and makes them tough. I would make sure she not getting an upgrade and then getting ready to depart the relationship. Keep your reciepts.

 

[Jeff Clark]

DM, my wife's had her's for a year now and they're great. PM me if you want to discuss this further.

 

[DieselMinded]

Good Points guys Thanks

DM



THANKS FOR THE 10 PM's Ive Received on this matter

 

[Timbeaux38]

I would REALLY take some time to think about this- I've got one brother in law and one very good friend whose wives left them for other men within a month of the surgery- one with kids one without- I'm not saying it was because of the "enhancement" only, but I believe it played a part... ... ...





I in no way intend to question the level of commitment that you 2 have for each other-



My wife wants em' too... ... ...



I bet I get a transmission and twins and plenty of other crap before she does though... ... ... .

 

[DieselMinded]

I bet I get a transmission and twins and plenty of other crap before she does though... ... ... .

YEAH RIGHT ... . LOL



Thats What I said ..... Good Luck They Can be very Convinsing

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K shra - shra on the other part



Not really worried



Maybe we can get a group Buy :-laf



DM

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[scootergmc]

Well, if she's 105 and she stands chest high to your 6', she's going to look fake. No question.



Here's an alternative: take your wife out to dinner when those shows are on, get her flowers, show her she's special. She won't need enhancements after that. Try boosting her self-esteem on your own. Then spend the 6k on a downpayment for an '05 CTD.

 

[Timbeaux38]

YEAH RIGHT ... . LOL



Thats What I said ..... Good Luck They Can be very Convinsing

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K shra - shra on the other part



Not really worried



Maybe we can get a group Buy :-laf



DM

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All kidding aside, I can tell that you may no be okay with this since you are asking strangers what they think- Which is fine- but if you have real concerns they need to be shared with the wifey as well- don't hold anything in because once she gets em' you cant go back to walmart for a refund... . One of the worst arguements I ever has with my wife was because I kept my mouth shut and agreed with her (even though it ****** me off) and did not say anything until after the fact- when it was too late and made me look like even more of a butthole. . This was over like a $100 purchase, but we were upset for quite some time- That being said, I'm sure most of your concerns will melt awat when you have to take TimToolmans advice... ... . :-laf :-laf

 

[DEickhoff]

A woman's view point

An enhancement of her breasts will not solve her low self-esteem or depression. There can be complications later in life ranging from burst jell sacks to serious back pain (additional weight up front). Try to convince her to wait 6 months, get help for her self-esteem and depression and then re-think this issue. Some large breasted women get surgery to reduce the breasts to ease back trouble. Do some serious thinking and talking it over with the Doctor, each other and counselors.



Good luck and I wish you the best.



Dawna

 

[Fireman Dave]

No pics? Dang. Oh well...



Seriously, though - and the chat freaks are going to be all over me for saying this - I wouldn't be in favor of this for my wife. Don't get me wrong - I enjoy a nice rack like anyone else does. But I personally prefer seeing a woman with natural ones - no matter what size - compared to fake ones. The fake ones just don't do it for me. There's just something about knowing they're fake that makes them less appealing to me (that doesn't mean I still don't look, though ). Whoa there chat freaks - back off! :-laf Some of the hottest women I've ever seen had small chests - to me that doesn't make the woman.



I agree 100% with the others on here who said that in the long run this won't help her self esteem issues. I also think a great point has been made about your feelings about it. A decision like this should be mutually comfortable for both of you, in my opinion. I think once you're married, stuff like this becomes a dual decision.



As for the dangerous question - any time you go under the knife, anything can happen - even if it's routine. But good luck to both of you. I hope whatever happens works out well for you.



Who needs Dr. Phil when you have the TDR?

 

[ARedetzke]

The fake ones just don't do it for me.

If you can touch them, they're real :-laf



Sorry, I couldn't resist.

 

[Jeff Clark]

If you can touch them, they're real

Agreed.

 

[Fireman Dave]

LOL - I knew it was coming. :-laf



DM - I hope I didn't turn your thread into a circus.