The problem is the tension spring!!!!!!!!
After dealing with this problem for a year or so, I had some new tension springs made up that provide 15% more arm tension on the arm. Works real well, I've speed tested in rain up to 80 MPH, sometimes you'll get some sail at that speed but nowhere near what I had before. A friend of mine has one on his truck, and he likes it too.
Bending the arm in my opinion did nothing for me, because it makes such a small change in the angle (and therefore elongation of the spring) that it really doesn't add much spring pressure to the wiper arm.
I've been testing it now for about six months, and I've noticed that the wiper blade itself doesn't last as long (I've had to replace it after 4~5 months) BUT I've had no problems with visibility. So the downfall to the spring is that you'll be replacing wiper blades a little more often.
My thought was that after I'm done testing I'd offer the new springs for sale. They are designed springs (i. e. i did the calculations to make sure the spring is not overtensioned). I think there would be enough interest to warrant having a couple hundred made up, that would keep the prices low for everyone, otherwise they are about $35~40 each in low quantities

Hopefully I'd be able to get down to the $10 range or so with volume.
I do have a couple left, and I'd be interested in getting a couple more out there to get some feedback on the design. If you're interested in testing (I think I have three or four left) let me know-
Thanks-
Dave