Well I know this thread has taken a turn from the op's original question but here is some clarification on what the feds have to say about it
https://one.nhtsa.gov/cars/rules/rulings/TirePresFinal/Index.html
Looks like anything under 10k needs to have it and is based on the vehicle tire inflation placard or a minimum set in the rule however whichever is higher is required. And while I do agree that there should be more "wiggle room" for being able to set pressures based on tire inflation charts if one were to read more than the small snippet I copied and pasted below most of this is targeted specifically to get the consumer to pay attention to tire pressures (duh). Why ram has the placard pressures so high I do not know unless it is strictly a CYA maneuver as tires in load range E carry more weight than the GVW of the (2500) vehicle even accounting for a heavy load on the rear though I did not do an exhaustive search to verify that but a quick look at 245/70/17e tires indicate a 3000lb rating which I think is the smallest tire available on a 2500 with diesel nor have I weighed front and rear with a heavy load to verify that the rear would still be under the tire load rating at various pressures and the vehicle at the 10k GVW
A. Highlights of the Notice of Proposed Rulemaking
NHTSA initiated this rulemaking with the publication of a Notice of Proposed Rulemaking (NPRM)(66 FR 38982, Docket No. NHTSA-2000-8572) on July 26, 2001. The NPRM proposed to require passenger cars, light trucks, multipurpose passenger vehicles, and buses with a gross vehicle weight rating of 10,000 pounds or less, except those vehicles with dual wheels on an axle, to be equipped with a tire pressure monitoring system (TPMS).
The agency sought comment on two alternative sets of performance requirements for TPMSs and proposed adopting one of them in the final rule. The first alternative would have required that the driver be warned when the pressure in any single tire or in each tire in any combination of tires, up to a total of four tires, had fallen to 20 percent or more below the vehicle manufacturer's recommended cold inflation pressure for the vehicle's tires (the placard pressure), or a minimum level of pressure specified in the standard, whichever was higher. (This alternative is referred to below as the four-tire, 20 percent alternative.) The second alternative would have required that the driver be warned when the pressure in any single tire or in each tire in any combination of tires, up to a total of three tires, had fallen to 25 percent or more below the placard pressure, or a minimum level of pressure specified in the standard, whichever was higher. (This alternative is referred to below as the three-tire, 25 percent alternative.) The minimum levels of pressure were the same in both proposed alternatives. The adoption of four-tire, 20 percent alternative would have required that drivers be warned of under-inflation sooner and in a greater array of circumstances. It would also have narrowed the range of technologies that manufacturers could use to comply with the new standard.
There are two types of TPMSs currently available, direct TPMSs and indirect TPMSs. Direct TPMSs have a tire pressure sensor in each tire. The sensors transmit pressure information to a receiver. Indirect TPMSs do not have tire pressure sensors. Current indirect TPMSs rely on the wheel speed sensors in an anti-lock braking system (ABS) to detect and compare differences in the rotational speed of a vehicle's wheels. Those differences correlate to differences in tire pressure because decreases in tire pressure cause decreases in tire diameter that, in turn, cause increases in wheel speed.
To meet the four-tire, 20 percent alternative, vehicle manufacturers likely would have had to use direct TPMSs because even improved indirect systems would not likely be able to detect loss of pressure until pressure has fallen 25 percent and could not detect all combinations of significantly under-inflated tires. To meet the three-tire, 25 percent alternative, vehicle manufacturers would have been able to install either direct TPMSs or improved indirect TPMSs, but not current indirect TPMSs.