Ok, I said I'd come up with something, I did. I also said it was a lot more difficult than I expected, and it certainly was.
I found a relay toggle circuit design on the net which I modified slightly and built. I had to buy a few parts and used a bunch of stuff in my junk box to construct the unit. I bench tested it and tweaked it until it was working consistently, then coated it with epoxy to prevent shorts after installing. Just before installation, and after removing the various cup holders and other plastic parts to get to the panel, I tested it once more. It failed to operate this time. I apparently blew out the diode and would have to remanufacture it.
Since I am soon to leave on an extended trip, I elected to install the stalk switch into the bezel between the seat heater switches and skip the transistor toggle relay since I wasn't sure how reliable it would be and didn't want to fool with it while on the road.
Here is the circuit diagram I came up with. The relay I used was one I had from an earlier project and Radio Shack no longer carries it.
My advise to those considering this mod is... don't. Unless you're much more skilled than I, wait until someone comes out with a much simpler designed switch. Of course my electronics knowledge is limited and I'm certain there are others who could come up a better mousetrap.
Dan