And now the rest of the story.
Actually Peter nailed it way back in post 10. I asked them back then to verify there was no spacer. I stopped by today again on a test drive and the truck was still on the hoist. We were comparing again and my partner got on the phone with one of Peters guys who again pointed out that some if not all AM clutch set up's to replace DMF require a spacer on the back of the crank. As we were talking the tech said "but if there was a 1/2 spacer the starter would not engage the ring gear. Damn, another small clue missed! I look at the ring gear and the teeth are already starting to wear on the leading edge where the starter drive was only making about 3/16 contact with the tooth. That's when I said pull it ALL the way apart so I can see for myself. Sure enough, the spacer I asked about was there. The tech said "that had to be OEM as look how nice it fits." So that also explains the 1/2 having to be cut off the bearing retainer and the over stroke of the slave cylinder. Thanks to Peter and Gary for all their help on this one. They really gave some good input and pointed out everything we needed to know. It's great to have vendors here that are always willing to help.
In defense of the technician, this was the first DMF clutch he had done, and I have to agree, the spacer fit nicely to the flex plate, and looked like it should be there.
The flex plate bolts they had were too long so we could not bolt it all up to confirm, but it appears to be the problem. I'm sure the customer will be glad to have his truck back, and the dealer has a lot of duplicate new parts lying on the bench.
If you have not seen this part before, it is about 4" in diameter, and the flywheel bolts go through the eight holes. It pilots on the crank, and the flywheel pilots on the spacer.
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