I have an update! So i got with Ryan at hardway and he looked up my vin and found that i had several versions older software in my tune. He emailed me the latest and greatest flash and my truck runs 10 times better and has a super crisp throttle like a tuned up P-pump! (just comparing the throttle response to my old 12 valve) it also fixed the smoking problem. Now on cold crank the EB engages and i can turn it off immediately with the switch or just by tapping the throttle like it should be. The trans shifts a bit different too. Thanks for all of yalls responses and help along the way!