I have the pull-down and hold-down relays in my hand from a 1997, new in a MOPAR box. The numbers are:
pull-down:4607036, with 45375 right below it.
hold-down:4687 483, with 50732 below.
The pull down is bigger, and higher amperage. They sit right next to each other on the firewall somewhere towards the driver from the battery I guess (don't have the donor truck anymore). The power for the pull down is a thicker gauge (14) red wire with a black stripe, coming from the passenger side battery in a dual setup, has a black fusable link in my case. The pull-down relay also seems to control the starter solenoid with a thicker solid brown wire from the relay down to the starter.
The hold down relay power comes from the passenger side battery, 16g red wire/white stripe.
Likely if one is working, and the other is not, like in your case - corrosion at the battery is not the cause but should be checked. Sounds like it could be the relay - pull the plug and jump the large spade ends to check it. Should thunk the shutoff-solenoid loudly. Do not leave this jumped! I did, and smoked mine. If it doesn't work when jumped, it is the relay.
best of luck,
jon