Originally posted by SlyBones
I think I get it just fine. And yes I think people judge me by their opinion of me. Thats how it works. If I treat people in a way that is consistent with their priorities in life, then they will judge a nice guy. If I treat people like crap, with respect to their priorities in life, then they will think I am an a$$hole.
In the end my comment still stands. Opinions are what matters. I have my opinion of me. And to me that is what matters. Other people have their opinion of me, and for them that is what matters. I may or may not like their opinion of me, or I may or may not care. But for them their opinion is what matters, it is how they will judge me, it is what they will say to others when I am not around, etc. This is how it works.
Now you may not agree with this. And thats OK because I dont find it sad that you have your own opinion. I find it sad that you dont think other people can have their own opinions. At least thats my interpretation of your original comment.