DZ ink24, we didn't use the shipping hook on the driver side of the engine. We lifted the motor using the front shipping hook left on the engine at the passenger side, and actually wrapped a chain around the engine mount itself on the driver side. The lifting point was almost at the center of the engine. We did measure before we lifted and had about 4. 75" of cherry picker travel before it hit the hood. Considering we had to lift it 3. 5", we had just over an inch. It wasn't close enough that it bothered me, and we were mindful of it.
Pan was not heavy, and no where near 4' long. I removed the old and put in the new by myself, on my back, working around the cherry picker, two jack stands, and hoist arms on both sides. It is very manageable. My estimate on a length would be 30" As jhenderson mentioned, start up was like any other normal oil change, no CEL, oil pressure jumped above 40lbs instantly at start up, and after two days of driving, no leaks around the pan (knock on wood).
As far as prevention of this happening again, I'm not sure, but need to figure something out. I tried to find an aftermarket pan (thinking something like the MagTech diff covers and trans pans), with no luck, and from I can tell and have read, there is nothing different with the replacement pan I bought from Geno's than the one I took off... even have the same part number stamped into it. I am concerned with this, as I plan to have this truck another 7 year minimum, maybe 10, and REALLY don't want to do this again. I did read on one thread a guy would take a rag with some oil on it, and wipe the pan down with it, I did that after the change (used the rag I had to wipe up the spills and drips after the change). Most of the damage (although not all) was in the sump area. The narrow portion towards the front of the engine was in pretty decent shape. I thought about trying to attach a rubber piece, or even thin aluminum sheet metal in front of the pan at or near the cross member, just to try to keep all the winter salt from the lovely roads we have here in Southeast Michigan off the pan. That decision is still TBD.