First - This is the 12 Valve Section of the forum
Second - Electronic Flashes do not work on my 12 Valve engine very well: Oo.
Third - the stock Dodge sending unit is located on the driver's side behind the power steering - vacuum pump and requires a special deep gauge sending unit socket to remove in most cases. This stock unit is known to fail and is a 45 dollar item from dodge.
Fourth - my gauges on my 96 do vary with operating rpm and operating temperature. (Except the fuel gauge - it's been reading empty for 4 years!

(frikin' OE crud) However, the signal sent to the PCM may be damped or averaged to avoid huge swings in readings for the oil and water temp readings.
Fifth - Like Joe G stated you can get "mechanical" oil pressure readings from several places on the engine block, the most commonly used are teeing into the stock sending unit location (1/8 NPT) or on the top of the oil filter housing (1/8 npt).
Sixth - anybody that can 'blow up / burn down / melt down" multiple engines in a few years deserves everyone's attention as an ace mechanic on this forum.....
Seventh - the reason that the water temp gauges did not read high on your "melted blocks" was the sending unit is designed to read a liquid temperature, i. e. it is an immersion thermometer. When a cooling system leaks and coolant drains out yielding an empty engine block, the water temperature sensor no longer functions because it was not designed to measure "steam!"
Keep on truckin'