BJO,
Just a thought... sometimes the guys who resurface these diesel heads do a gasser type resurface on them. They tend to get them way too rough to make them seal properly.
I have been to several shops all around the D/FW area looking and asking for guys who know how to do the resurface the correct way. I was able to find only one shop to do it correctly.
The surface has to be very smooth. Not rough or cut with these Storm Vulcan machines. The Vulcan seems to cut the surface way too rough to get a good seal.
Reading through the thread here I tend to think it may be the head gasket leakin' on ya.
Last thoughts are... the head and deck surface have to very very clean prior to installing the head back on. Paying super careful attention and making sure the bolt holes are all cleaned out of the oil that is in them. If the oil is not removed from the holes prior to installation it can be pushed onto the deck surface when you begin to torque the head down. Causing early gasket failure. The outer bolt holes next to the exhasut side should have a tap run down them to cleanout all traces of rust and junk that seems to form in them at a minimum, I did them all for grins!
I cleaned my deck surface with a razor blade scraper for hours, then wiped the entire thing down with laquer thinner, then lightly sanded the entire deck with 400 wet/dry sandpaper, then went back with the laquer thinner again. I made sure everything was perfectly clean. Just like a new engine would be at the assembly plant.
I also checked to make sure the bolts were not stretched at all with the guide Cummins provided. Prior to torqueing the bolts I lightly coated them in oil to insure a good even torque. I do follow the manufacturers torque specs up to 89 lbs, but after that I take them to 120lbs instead of the extra 90 degree turn they call for.
Sorry to hear about the troubles with the gasket... been there before myself. Hope this helps!
Don~