I spent an hour at my local Les Schwab Tire Center today, they do all kinds of upgrades on all kinds of trucks.
I found this out:
#1: As far as they know there is not an "add a spring kit" available as instead of one bolt thru the spring group, the Dodge 2003 has 3 bolts.
#2: They can do a 2" lift for about $200, but it will lift the rear like 5 1/2" more than the front :-(
#3: They totally recommend the Firestone air bag kit, it is made especially heavy duty for the 2003 and is a NO DRILL application, totally bolt onto the truck to maintain warranty etc.
Looks like my only viable option is to go with the air bags, gotta go back to the beginning and read the air bag comments, for some reason I did not want to go with them, but they are totally for them and the installer said that in Bend, Or. where he transferred from, there are a lot of Ford Super Duty trucks sold and he spent almost every day installing a set of air bags on the Super Dutys with no problems listed.
Sigh, getting worn down with ideas and ready to spend the bucks for the air bags, hope it is the best idea
Hunter1