Yes to question post #3 after it hangs for a while and doesn't shift to od I will lock it out and after a short time it will lock back in 3rd lockup usually around 2100 at 55. When od and lockup works it usually drops to 1400-1500 at 55 Quite a difference
Jumper in pdc, brown wire reads 12.58 volts, flip switch drops to 0.18 volts when ground applied through switch.
I talked to my transmission guy this a.m. he will look at it monday morning. When i had it there last time, it was working fine, this was before i went to get the trailer from down at sons house, 259 miles away. When he had the scanner on it we watched it shift and lockup all was fine, he went ahead and added a ground to the black wire pin 4 at the apps, just so it did not have to hunt for a ground. He thinks without looking at it the same as you but is leaning to bad solenoid or electrical problem, but i am going to try to roundup a valve body we can try if the solenoid does not fix this.