You have me concerned now. I have a set of 6000k HID low beam bulbs on order from Diode for my 2017 with the anti-flicker modules for projector housings (Link to kit ). I'm now worried these may not be a good choice if you're having the issues you described.
My 2015 doesn't agree with the Diode Dynamics HID lights around 20% of the time so I removed them. When they worked they were fantastic, but when they both shut off simultaneously while driving, not so much.
I'm going with lights from The Retrofit Shop that incorporate a resistor bank to fool the computer into thinking that the halogens are in place. I'm hoping this will solve the issue. These lights in the projector housings have a clear and distinct cut-off that I adjust to keep the road lit up appropriately in front of the truck at 60mph. I haven't ever had another driver flash me their high beams with this setup.
The LED's in the fog lamps are another story though...:-laf