Don,
I just went through all of the options you speak of. I have a 96 2500 4X4 and was pulling my CJ-5 with a 10. 5 ft slide in camper for many years. The issues I had with that set-up were many, but mainly that I had no room. A slide in affords very little storage and the jeep in tow provided even less. This coupled with the hugh effort required to get everything loaded every time I wanted to go out led me to look for a better solution. I have since upgraded to a 38 ft Nomad Rampage fifth wheel toy hauler. The trailer wieghs 10,500 empty and loaded with the Jeep, a couple of dirt bikes and all of our gear ,food and water, it is at 16. 500. As mentioned above, not many of the toy haulers have large enough garage space to support a jeep, but the Rampage has no wall for the garage so there is 18 feet of garage space and the jeep sits centered on the three axles. It tows great. Make sure your brakes are up to snuff and you should be good to go. The only complaint I have about three axles is backing into tight spots... . it takes a little patience.
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1996 Dodge 2500 SLT 4X4, ATS Stage IV transmission and TC, Banks PP, AFE intake system, Banks exhaust brake, EGT Brakes, Gear Vendors Under/overdrive.