I couldn't disagree more.
I have had my sway bar on for 2.5 years and nearly 30K miles, and it has been nothing but an improvement for every single mile.
The empty ride did not change. There is nothing stiffer about the ride. The empty and loaded handling is greatly improved. The truck is more stable in corners and at high speed. During slow speed driving the truck feels like it stays much flatter in big turns. I drive lots of miles on winding mountain roads, as well as dirt roads.
With the TT the back end of the truck is much more stable at low speed on curvy roads, which is where I saw the biggest improvement while towing. If you use a WDH then the rolling motion of the TT in a corner can be transferred to the back of the truck. I didn't notice too much transfer on my 5K 22' TT, but when I stepped up to my current camper which is about 8K loaded and 1,200 on the tongue I saw a lot of transfer on slow winding roads. The sway-bar eliminated that completely, and a more stable truck will lead to a more stable TT.
I often take 2 ATV's with me camping, which ride above the bed rails and I am quite happy to have done the sway-bar install even more.
The change to the ride has been one of the best mods I have done to my truck, for both empty and loaded driving.
I run the standard Hellwig sway-bar. They also make the Big Wig which is larger and better for higher CG loads like a TC.