No Axle Disconnect?
If I am reading this thread correctly, I get the impression that certain new 4 WD Rams do not have an axle disconnect. I am also further assuming that the front drive shaft will rotate as the truck moves. This is not a big deal. I wish mine were that way. It's gotta beat a Rube Goldberg linkage or vacuum axle engagement system.
There is a sliding gear, connected to the front drive shaft output yoke, in most transfer cases that idles on a shaft until the 4 WD is engaged, usually with the floor lever. (That's to allow for the different speeds of the front and rear axles. ) At that point, the idling gear slides (gently or doggedly) into mesh against a gear that rotates with the rear drive shaft, thus engaging the front drive shaft.
I've found that the average driver runs a greater risk of component damage from lack of lubrication due to nonuse of the front drive components when driving with hubs unlocked or the axle disconnected. In short, the components, including U joints, bearings, and ring-pinion gear set depend on a certain minimum amount of monthly use to keep the lubricants spread around. The owners manual will tell you to drive 5 or so miles monthly in 4 WD to accomplish that.
In the early days of 4 WD, locking and unlocking hubs were an option. Vehicles without them went a bazillion miles without problems. I was once assigned a "stripper" Jeep Cherokee without unlocking hubs. It had 75,000 miles on it when it was assigned to me, and was still using the original bearings and U joints. I gave it up (reluctantly) at 105,000 miles, still with the same original parts.
My wife's uncle was a mechanical engineer at Sandia Labs in the 60s and 70s. He had a Jeep FC-170 with which he towed a 30 foot Airstream trailer. (He was VERY adventurous. ) Being the data-conscious engineer-type, he kept copious records of everything, including fuel usage. On one cross-continent trip, one of the front Warn hubs wouldn't release fully. He had a time constraint, so he drove, towing, from Albuquerque to New York and back with the hubs locked, and the shift lever in 2 WD. On his return, he discovered that his fuel usage differed from unlocked hubs only marginally. The difference was within the variance expected due to differing driving conditions. I documented similar results with my 1976 Cherokee.
In a previous job, I "advised" certain law enforcement personnel on the use of 4 WD on patrol and in pursuit. I suggested that they epoxy their hubs locked, quoting the lubrication and fuel economy issues. There was also the small problem of getting out to manually lock hubs when beginning a pursuit, and the time lost doing so.