This question is asked a lot concerning trailer weight, and you will see lots of arguments about it. But the only numbers you need to concern yourself with are the axle ratings and because your in a remote area you should get the highest trailer axle ratings you can find per the ratio of weight. An example, you can buy a luxury 5ver with 17K GVWR but if the 5ver weighs at 16K you will be close to the max ratings. Arctic Fox 5vers are not the high end on the luxury department, but the ratio per GVWR and actual weight are just about the best that I have found, don't mean to start an argument just using them as an example.
You should calculate what pin weight that will not overload your Steer/front and Drive/Rear axle weight ratings and don't forget about your cargo, persons, hitch (can be heavy) and fuel weights that will add to the vehicle. You should set up your truck as you would use it towing the 5ver you want, then weigh it. Now calculate what is left over for the pin weight.
When looking at the 5vers, check the brochure's for the pin weights (dont forget to calculate and add the tank weights full) then when you settle on the 5ver you want, BEFORE you purchase it, have it weighed to confirm those numbers.
Remember, staying within the axle weight ratings are the only legal way to pull a 5ver heavy, or any trailer for that matter, all axle brakes are rated for the axle weight rating they have and should be of no concern when going over Dodges GCVWR, but read the next paragraph to help you decide for yourself.
I was pulling a heavy triple axle toy hauler when the trailer brake pin shorted out to the tail light pin in the trailer plug causing the trailer brakes to lock up (full 12V) when I hit my brakes. After trouble shooting, my choices were either hire a flat bed trailer to haul the 5ver (very expensive) or disconnect the trailer brakes at the axles so I still had running lights and tow it another 300 miles to its destination. I chose to tow it, and at just about 23K GCVW, I just drove slow (55MPH) and kept a larger safety margin between me and the vehicles in front. I also had to drive in heavy city traffic at times. I had no problems or near accidents, just took my time. Remember that was an extreme case and did what I had to do to get through the situation. That is something you should keep in mind when you go over Dodges GCVWR.