Originally posted by jpark
Gentlemen:
This is not a "public place. " It is an extension of a business enterprise, if you will, and your free speech is not protected here.
What's really ruining this great country is the attitide that "I can do as I please and if you don't like it, tough. "
What's wrong with being polite? Being polite isn't the same as PC. I hate PC as much as anyone, but in our rebellion against PC, let's not let the pendulum swing all the way over to rudeness, coarseness crassness and just plain poor taste.
jparks,
I realize this is a privately owned profit based business, but as some of the individuals that pay to use this site and keep this site in business we have a right to voice our opinions on how we think the service should be run,,,,,,and I'm not saying we should necessarily get it our way, but we should voice our opinions when we don't like something, just like the moderators and some others voiced their opinions when they did not like the post and deleted it.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being polite, I totally agree with you that we should all be polite and repectful of each other. I think that is a requirement..... I believe in the whole "do unto others as you wish them to do unto you" thing. I lead my life as a polite repectful man that tries to be helpful when needed and will give you the shirt off my back if you need it... .
Point is that I don't think anyone was being necessarily inpolite. There seems to be an invisible line here thats hard to follow, at least for me... ...
"Breast" for instance is not in my opinion considered a word that is unrespectful or inpolite (and I realize these terms are interpreted differently by each prson) and if a moderator chooses to delete or ban a thread based on this word or a word that is similar in content then there is going to be people that stand up and say something, because they feel that the moderators are forcing their values or beliefs on them.....
This is a BBS that SHOULD allow people to flex themselves, and say things (certainly within reason) that may be considered a little controversial or edgy. If ones beliefs are forced on everyone else, then there is an issue.
Now the hard part is to know where to draw the line, and I know its hard as moderator to be able to do that and I respect the moderators and owners for this.
But instead of going to one extreme (in this case the totally conservative extreme), isn't there a possibility of having some middle ground?
Maybe there is a way to form some sort of committee or group of long time members (a cross section) so when a questionable subject is brought up, those individuals can discuss it amongst themselves and take a vote or something to decide instead of just whacking the thread and causing a big stink... ... there is always room for improvement. I just figure it will be more productive to direct the topic in a direction of solutions rather than continue the yelling back and forth.
There should always be room for discussion and improvement rather than just saying this is the way it is and if you don't like it tough poop ( and I hope that isn't one of those words.....
kerryp
bastrop, tx