This thread was started to find out who has to ask permission before there able to do anything. Example: I like to fish, and hunt, and me and my wife have a good relationship towards that "no problems" sometimes she goes with me and sometimes not. OK seems like the last few sets of friends I've had, have to ask permission to go. "This makes me sick. " One of the friends kinda changes his voice like "baby talk" to ask, and had another actually had his wife time him, another words when I go out it's usually a all day event. About 1 1/2 hours out he's saying are you ready to go "Debbie's" time me. She wants equal time away to. There's nothing wrong with equal time, but I believe there's more to it than that. Have a brother- in- law same way was scared to death of his X. Now if there's a event your planning together or something of the sort that's different if you come in from work, and say see you later "gone fishin". You know "respect" between yourselves. I think you see my point so come on be honest, and spill your gut's. 
