Much better? Much better for what?
Or is it that nobody buys them because of reasoning like JGoss's? Like the HTBG/12, which is a great little turbo and can handle 400+ with no problem, but most folks, including myself at the time, figure that spending the little extra to get a "better" turbo is the smart thing. Even against the advice of a friend that had one working well on a 420hp big-tired automatic that towed. I'd probably still have the 'BG on my truck if that was the one I had originally bought.
You have to get off the "spool faster" thing. Good towing characteristics have little to do with how fast the turbo accelerates. The balance of the aerodynamic load between the compressor and the turbine is what counts. The drag from the larger wheel effectively robs some of the power available from the system (more drag with same input energy = less actual work being done, meaning not as much air can be pumped). The smaller wheels can transfer more of the exhaust energy into intake energy, because they don't waste as much due to drag. This is, of course, providing that both turbos being compared are still within their map. Where the larger compressors gain the advantage is when the smaller ones run out of their map and superheat the air charge. If the turbo is maxed out and the egts are still going up (like around 32psi with the HX35/12), then a larger turbo will probably do you some good. If you're not hitting 32psi and egts are an issue, then a larger turbo probably won't help.
I've seen the map, and they both look to max out right around 58ppm. That only shows one part of the equation though. Turbines and exhaust housings aren't factored in, so you really have no idea how they'll actually work on the actual engine. There isn't anything on that map that tells us how it works on a mildly tuned truck that tows heavy. And maybe its rated higher than the stocker because the turbine side is less restrictive, or maybe because the stocker needs to be wastegated to maintain a lower psi to stay in its map, thus causing the pressure delta to go way negative?
Having a turbo that is already online and responsive vs. having to goose the throttle or downshift to light it up is the key to a good towing turbo, and that's accomplished with a turbo that's sized close to stock. At least that's what I've found out over the past 8 years or so of experimenting anyway. YMMV. Do let us know how yours works for you.
And out of curiosity, if you haven't towed with it yet, how can you recommended the Stage 2 as a good towing turbo?
So you think driving a truck and driving a turbo is a good thing? Why not size the turbo to be there for your needs?