We have a 30 ft toyhauler bumper pull, it’s 7k empty, but lets face it, going on a trip loaded down with enough supplies for a family of 6 enhances our towing weight a bit more lol. We opted for the diesel. It’s a 14’ ram 3500 6.7 4x4, and it pulls great. With the EB and the Intergrated brake controller its both very capable and safe. I put Ride Rite airbags with a compressor for air for the kids bikes, tires or whatever comes up. For me, traveling with my wife, kids and critters a guy can never be too safe these days. Though, that being said, I find i need to keep an extra box of DEF in the trailer for traveling distances 1,000 miles or more so i have one when the DEF goes down. Just something to remember to throw into the trailer cubby or the bed of the truck before you start a journey. But i would rather do that and keep my diesel. More capability is key. Safe journeys!