I have, personally, never had an automatic that could stand up. But then again, most of my manuals had a hard time, too.
I bought mine, with the manual, for several reasons. First, I have never had an automatic that shifted the way I thought it should. Upshifts are always too mushy. Downshifts are always too late. My last truck, even with the HyperTech programming, suffered from this. The HyperTech helped, but not enough, IMO.
Second, and very related to the first, I want total control on shifts. I shift when I want, not when the computer thinks it should. Try getting to 25 MPH, on level ground, without touching the throttle on an auto.
Third, I wanted the HO. But, even if there were an optional auto, I would have gotten the manual.
Fourth, I have never known anyone who owned a Dodge automatic that didn't have major problems. My Dad drove his brand new Dodge from Indiana to Las Vegas and had to have it rebuilt before he got home. Believe me, my Dad is not hard on trannies. He got home and traded it in on a Chevy. The Chevy automatic has made several trips from Indiana and back with no troubles.
Fifth, repairing a manual is less costly and easier that repairing an automatic. A good clutch costs less and is easier to install than a "good" TC, etc.